The colors of the site and the menu are in the color.css file
Please go to templates/your_template_name/css/color.css around line #379 you will see this:
/***YJSG MEGA MENU STYLE*********/
And i am not sure if you can put different colors for each menu item, but you can change the color of the second level of the menu.
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